Monday, July 25, 2016

sunday afternoons

He pretended he didn’t see her cry and she pretended she was ok.
And their kids grew up calling that love

BP

Thursday, April 21, 2016

thank goodness for the pollen

because it's a lot easier 
to say it's allergies.

BP

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

wednesdays and tuesdays and all the other days

Today was Wednesday and I didn’t even realize till ten minutes ago
I think my brain was trying to help me forget
Because if it was Wednesday then in four hours it won’t be anymore and then the day he was supposed to come would have come and gone and I would feel sad and down which I can’t afford right now


because yesterday it was Tuesday and
I cried to my parents for the first time since that boy asked my best friend to the prom a year ago (and I can’t believe that was a year ago) and yesterday was Tuesday

Yesterday was Tuesday and I finally caught my parents up on the good and the bad and
And
And
And I would’ve loved to talk to you about that but Tuesdays were busy being Tuesdays and Wednesday was being impatient like it always is and I just didn’t feel like you cared

And on Tuesdays I kept checking to see if you'd written about me or her or anyone
To see if maybe you cared, but you were just afraid to show it
To see if I wasn't so wrong about Wednesdays, shouldn't feel so embarrassed for caring so much

And about a month ago I wrote a post called Tuesday and saved it on my iPhone note pad and sent it to a friend because only two people really read my blog anymore and
When you want to write about one of those two people that still actually read your blog it’s not super convenient to write on your blog

So you write and write and write on an iPhone note pad and send it to your friend
Just to ensure someone out there can see inside your head
So someone knows what you’re feeling, how you’re pinning it all together

But you see my phone is running out of room for Tuesdays and Wednesdays
Running out of the 30-day/week/month free trial session that it signed up for,
To the Getting-my-hopes-up-for-you Magazine

Because the last time I wrote about Tuesdays they had hope for Wednesdays and lots of what ifs hung in the air kind of like mistletoe during Christmastime

But this time the tomorrow in the picture
Isn’t a Wednesday



and I never was that good at writing about Thursdays

BP

Saturday, April 2, 2016

the power of a broken heart

This one is for the boy with the leather belt

For the fact that he thought it would feel better
Around his neck than around his waist

For the fact that he told a girl about the demons in his head
And she asked for space
Because hearing those things was hard for her

And it’s not her fault because she didn’t deserve to hear it


Didn’t deserve to be put in a position where someone was blaming her for the darkness in their heart
Didn’t deserve to be reminded that life isn’t anything like 90% of 80s sitcoms made us think it would be



But there she was
And there he was



People telling them it wasn’t that big of a deal
They’re overreacting
Move on

She should just stop being his friend “it isn’t healthy”
And he should just get over himself  and“focus on the positives”

But what no one could seem to understand is the power of a broken heart
The way it can change your life and steals the light from your eyes
The way it hurts

Because if you were walking down the street
And someone started choking you
I can guarantee you anything
If you turned to see who it was
And realized
It was someone you loved

Someone you would’ve given your life to
Someone you trusted,
taking the very life out of your lungs,

You would die of a broken heart

Before you ever had the chance to realize
You were becoming



Short of breath




BP

Saturday, March 5, 2016

ok

Because the thing about being human is,
If you’re sad but you don’t let yourself cry 

(because you're strong)


If you’re empty and you don’t let yourself feel 
(because you're busy)

And you keep telling everyone everything is good and ok and going well
And smiling


And living
And holding on
And hanging in there


The sad decides to make itself at home.
Decides to look around a little, maybe stay for a while


And without anyone ever knowing 
You realize you’re focusing a whole lot on swimming and breathing




You realize that uncried tears aren’t as forgiving as you thought
You realize your heart is drowning

And you’re not quite sure
what to do. 


And that's ok. 
Because it's ok 
To not be ok. 



BP

Sunday, February 14, 2016

another one about the moon

When I was eight years old I reached so high
I grabbed a handful of the moon and decided to sew it into my heart


But wait. For a minute
Let’s talk about how the moon has phases and
Let’s talk about empty tired gazes
Because I didn’t know about those things at eight
Because full hands aren’t that different from full moons
And I can’t seem to ever remember what gibbous even means

But wait. For a second
Let’s talk about 4 am phone calls with exes
and the roommates who have to listen to them
(me)
About how they’ve talked about the same things for… since forever
And how both their hearts are at half and just need to orbit to new
Or full
Or anything besides half because halves aren’t whole and you’d think that’d be common knowledge
But every night at 4 am they seem to forget.

Anyways,
Back to moon-fulls and stitching hearts
Sometimes I want to blame that eight-year-old me for putting something so unstable
So changing
So inconsistent in my heart,
but I thought it was pretty and my mom had just taught me how to sew

Anyways,
A couple days went by and I turned 18
And the moon either disappeared
Or was staying in phase gibbous because I couldn’t understand it
or
remember it or
find it or feel it enough to even unstitch it

And I just put off writing this for a couple hours to register for classes and I can’t get over how ironic it was because
I ended up signing up for a class called Outer Space and I can almost guarantee they’re going to talk about the moon
And gibbous and phases



So maybe I should sit front row and take good notes and act interested and smile and dress nice
And maybe I’ll get a good grade in the class and be able to map out my heart a little better

The sun doesn’t have phases though
(as I’m sure I’ll learn in my class)
At least not on earth
So maybe me myself and eight-year-old I should’ve sewn in handfuls of the sun

But I didn’t

Anyways,
I still fall in love with the moon
I’ve written about it three times on this blog alone and doodled it on every page of my journal

And really, I think if there were a rocket in my back yard made of cardboard boxes and tin foil
I would be convinced it could get me to the moon

Because I would want it to
Because craters and mountains ranges and reflected light seem like the types of things that would make good stories and better friends and would add up for some good pictures
Because I haven’t felt at full for the last couple weeks and I’m starting to worry
Because I’ve had to reinvent my scale of self-worth thirteen times in the last couple months and I’m starting to worry
Because I want to show her how I know I can make her feel full because I can tell she’s starting to worry

Anyways,
I still think the moon is beautiful, even when it’s new
Even when it’s half
Even when it’s gibbous

And I think eight-year-old me knew that even when the moon disappeared,
It was still there, just waiting to take our breath away the next week

Maybe she knew there was something quite amazing about being able to say you’ve felt empty and half and yet,

To always know you’d make your way back to full. 


BP